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Dr. Maggie Phillips
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here
are many possible
ways to help you
build on what you’ve
learned in the Reversing
Chronic Pain online
program. You may
have already found
your rhythm and
need little help
in finding a sense
of closure with
this program. Or
you may be feeling
that you still haven’t “hit
your stride” though
you’ve
been working faithfully
throughout the previous
nine modules.
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This
module will
help you
create a culminating
experience to integrate
further the changes
you’ve
been making

integration
is the key mechanism
that explains both
the absence of illness
and the presence of
well-being

Throughout the RCP
online program, we have shared extensive
information about the neuroscience of
pain & trauma, the essence of mind,
body, heart, and spirit healing, different
types of meditation and other healing

Understanding
how
the stories you tell
yourself about pain
are in alignment (or
in misalignment) with
your highest intentions
for healing is an
important part of
the process of your
recovery and reversal
of pain.

develop
the flexibility
and receptiveness
for
more flexible,
complete
intimacy
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Wherever
you are on this continuum,
we hope to help you
further integrate your
learning in this last
module so that you can
feel confident about
moving forward on your
own with an effective
protocol to continue
reversing the effects
of your pain condition.
When
I work with clients
in person, the last
session is spent reviewing
the work we have done
together, including
what was not helpful
as well as what really
worked well. We spend
time celebrating the
changes made and kept
and we set the compass
toward future learning.
This
module will help you
create a culminating
experience to integrate
further the changes
you’ve
been making as well
as discovering what
principles might serve
as the fuel to propel
further forward momentum.
The first section helps
you begin to pull together
some of the tools you’ve
been using by reviewing
how the process of integration
works.
Learn
More About How You
Integrate Change
The
RCP program has given
you many, many tools
to use to work with
your emotional and
physical pain. Now
the question is, how
do you pull them together
to create the most
effective, lasting
change?
To
answer this question
it’s
important to understand
the process of how
changes become internalized
or integrated most
effectively. There
is surprisingly little
accessible information
about this topic. The
most promising recent
model I’ve
found has been created
by Daniel Siegel, the
neuroscientist whom
you met in module 5
(if you hadn’t
encountered him before)
that he calls “The
Eight Domains of Self-Integration.”
All
forms of personal growth
and self-treatment
aim to maximize the
integration of learning
because it helps create
wholeness and a sense
of well-being through
lasting results. Siegel
goes even further and
suggests that integration
is the key mechanism
that explains both
the absence of illness
and the presence of
well-being.
As
we explore each of
the eight levels, we
include questions to
help you reflect on
how the RCP program
has helped you to develop
self-integration at
that particular level.
You may want to keep
your journal handy
for insights you receive
as you move through
this section.
1. The
first level of
Siegel’s
integrative model
is the integration
of awareness or
consciousness. How
we learn to focus
our attention is
how we create choice
and change. We
can create a “hub
of awareness,” for
example, that keeps
us centered and
helps us to acknowledge
states of discomfort
without being taken
over by them. This
hub also helps
us to see things
as they are, rather
than being limited
by our expectations
of how they “should
be." In the RCP’s
module 5, you learned
many skills of
observation that
are connected with
creating a mindful
focus. You explored
methods created
by Jon Kabat-Zinn
and Eckhart Tolle
designed to help
you focus on any
given moment. You
also explored radical
self-acceptance
and some simple
techniques like “turning
your mind toward,” ways
of finding your
compassionate observer,
and techniques
for welcoming your
uninvited inner
guests. Practices
of gratefulness
were also emphasized
as pathways to
mindfulness.
What
have you retained
from the “Observe” module?
What forms of mindfulness
do you practice
without thinking
as you move through
your day? Which
ones do you practice
intentionally and
what kinds of results
do they bring?
2. The
second level of
self-integration
involves collaboration
between right and
left brain functions so
that we have a
balance between
linear thinking
and planning, and
creativity and
nonverbal experience.
In the first three
modules of the
RCP online program,
we focused on the
wisdom and resources
of the body to
change your sense
of pain, and your
responses to your
pain experience.
The skills you
learned ranged
from breathing
techniques to the
use of the felt
sense and
Somatic Experiencing
techniques like
tracking and pendulation.
Module 3 presented
a menu of approaches
to relaxation.
Most of these skills
we practiced center
on non-linear,
right-brain experience.
In module four
on “Imagine,” we
explored ways that
the mind, or more
linear brain, can
help the body to
to shift its perceptions
of pain through
the practice of
imagery. In fact,
imagery is one
of the best ways
to right and left
brain functions.
During that module,
you explored guided
imager, interactive
imagery, and intuitive
or spontaneous
imagery as well
as self-hypnosis.
In
what ways do you
feel you have combined
your creative and
thinking minds
when you approach
your pain now when
compared to the
very beginning
of the RCP program.
What works best
for you in bringing
your thinking mind
and experiencing
body together to
help you cope with
pain more effectively?
3. The
third level involves integration
between the 3 structures
of our triune brain—the
brainstem, limbic
areas and the neocortex
thinking brain.
Without this type
of integration
we would ignore
what our senses,
emotions and body
sensations share
with us. Remember
that the triune
brain evolved first
from the reptilian
brain and its primitive
rhythms. You learned
many breathing
techniques designed
to help you re-regulate
these rhythms which
become disrupted
by trauma and pain. Are
you still using
some of these breathing
practices? If so,
which ones? The
limbic brain, our
second brain, regulates
emotion and movement.
There have been
many sections on
these skill areas
throughout the
first nine modules.
Module 3 explored
the emotional sense
of threat and trauma,
especially stress
and anxiety. Module
nine focused on “Love” and
ways to develop
self-love and heart
coherence, among
other skills. How
have you expanded
your practice and
experience of love
during the RCP
online program? Our
third brain, the
neocortex or thinking
brain, is capable
of finding meaning,
synthesizing information,
making decisions
and evaluating
the results. Throughout
the RCP online
program, we have
shared extensive
information about
the neuroscience
of pain and trauma,
the essence of
mind, body, heart,
and spirit healing,
different types
of meditation and
other healing techniques.
As
you think about
your experiences
of the past nine
modules, what new
information has
most influenced
your self-treatment
of pain in a positive
direction? What
new decisions or
changes have you
made as a result?
4. The
fourth level concerns memory
integration. Bringing
together past layers
of implicit, nonverbal
memory with mental
shaping of factual
memory. This type
of integration
is especially important
in resolving trauma,
which disrupts
memory circuits.
Module 8, “Connect,” guided
you in discovering
the links between
your pain symptoms
and past trauma.
You explored the
function of the
amygdala, learned
ways of blanacing
the functions of
the polyvagal nervous
system, and practices
to cultivate resiliency,
happiness, and
optimism. The last
practice exercise
focused on linking
your current reactions
to pain to post-traumatic
symptoms that are
intrusive (connected
to reliving pain,
anxiety and fear),
avoidant (examples
are numbing, loss
of interest, and
inactivity), or
have qualities
of hyperactivation
(such as irritability,
startle, anger,
edginess).
What
links between pain
and trauma have
you identified?
How have you learned
to work with these
connections? What
differences do
you believe this
focus has made
in your responses
to pain?
5. Narrative
integration involves
the creation
of stories about
yourself and
the life you
are living in
a way that makes
sense in a deep
way. Understanding
how the stories
you tell yourself
about pain are
in alignment
(or in misalignment)
with your highest
intentions for
healing is an
important part
of the process
of your recovery
and reversal
of pain. In module
four, “Imagine,” you
explored the
use of interactive
imagery to understand
the deeper meanings
of your pain,
to dialogue with
it, and to interact
with inner wisdom
and guidance
about your pain
and its healing.
You may have
chosen to create
an inner pain
coach to help
you complete
these steps.
At
this point in
your healing
process with
physical and/or
emotional pain,
what is the main
narrative story
line that appears
to shape and
reflect your
healing process?
What clues point
in this direction?
How would you
like to modify
your story line
at this point?
6. The
sixth integrative
level is the assimilaton
of states that
we might think
of as ego states
or parts of the
self. Here, we
need to learn ways
of welcoming parts
of ourselves rather
than rejecting
or denying ones
that are difficult
or which are connected
to distressing
emotions in the
past as an attempt
to resolve pain
or stabilize a
sense of security.
During the 9th module, “Love,” you
focused on ways
to love yourself.
One approach you
practiced was the
use of Energy Psychology
methods to clear
reversals that
are energetic barriers
that oppose a positive
intention. Touching
specific acupoints
while expressing
positive intentions
such as “I
want to love and
accept myself” or “even
though I still
have this back
pain, I deeply
and completely
love and accept
myself” was
one method you
explored. The Tapas
Acupressure Technique
(TAT) was another
energy method you
may have used to
accept and forgive
the parts of yourself
who have contributed
to your pain problem.
Several skills
and related practice
exercises from
module 5 “Observe” might
also have contributed
to increased self-acceptance.
These include development
of the “compassionate
observer” and
the “Welcoming
Uninvited Guests” meditation
based on Rumi’s
poem “The
Guest House.”
At
the time you are
working with this
last module, what
would you say is
the most effective
way you have found
to accept all of
yourself in relation
to what is left
of your emotional/physical
pain? What would
allow you to practice
self-acceptance
even more effectively?
7. Interpersonal
integration at
level seven involves
developing our
resonance circuits
so that we can
feel the inner
world or others
as well as our
own, and to see
how past patterns
restrict our current
relationships.
Daniel Siegel
believes that
couples, for example,
can be taught
to identify their
primitive brain
driven states
of reactvity and
then to develop
the flexibility
and receptiveness
for more flexible,
complete intimacy.
In module nine
on “Love,” you
learned more about
ways of loving
others in addition
to yourself. One
method for achieving
this was to explore
metta meditation
and prayer as
a way of sending
intentions of
loving kindness
to others, even
to individuals
who are very difficult
for you.
How
do you believe
that your relationships
have expanded
during your work
with the RCP program?
Verify the changes
you have noticed
by checking in
with at least
one loved one
to clarify whether
they have observed
the same changes
you have. Has
the quality of
your sharing about
your pain condition
changed in a positive
direction during
your involvement
with RCP online.
If so, how? Please
consider sharing
any changes on
the RCP blog.
8. Time
integration has
to do with the
understanding
of the impermanence
of life and to
form comforting
connections in
the face of uncertainty.
We learn to face
death even as
we find deeper
meaning in our
everyday lives.
Opportunities
for this level
of integration
during our program
have centered
on the spiritual
meaning of your
pain and spiritual
practices that
have helped you
recover, including
the pratice of
mindful gratitude
(module 5), and
the use of The
Empowerment Dynamic,
and positive intentions
(module one).
Has
your work during
the RCP program
helped you to
expand and deepen
your spiritual
awareness? If
so, please take
time to describe
some of the spiritual
growth you have
made before going
on to the first
exercise below.
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Journal
Exercise 10-1
(Use
your chosen journal format.)
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Test
Yourself on Self-Integration:
Exercise 1
(Journaling)
As
part of ending the
RCP online program,
please use this exercise
to evaluate how well
you are integrating
what you have learned.
Choose 3-5 of the eight
levels of integration
discussed above and
listed below, and journal
about your progress
on each, using the
following questions
as a guide.
1. What
have you learned about
how to focus your attention
differently on pain?
What differences has
this made in the quality
of your life? In your
pain levels?
2. How
have you achieved a
balance between your
right and left brain
functions so that you
can both make optimal
choices about treating
your pain as well as
discovering creative
ways of experiencing
it.
3. Think
of a recent challenge
your pain condition
has offered you. As
you look back at how
you coped, were all
3 brains included in
the ways you reacted?
Were any of the three
brain functions underrepresented?
If so, how could you
involve all three areas
while creating balance
between them?
4. How
has your memory process
related to pain shifted
during the RCP program?
Have you been able
to unhook trauma from
your memories that
contribute to emotional
or physical pain? How
have you accomplished
this? What further
work do you need to
do in this area?
5. How
have your stories that
you tell yourself and
others about your pain
changed during this
online training? What
changes do you anticipate
in the next five years?
The next ten?
6. How
have you brought different
parts of yourself together
as a result of your
experiences in this
course? What difference
has this made? What
work is left for you
to do?
7. How
have your relationships
changed during this
training program? Do
you find that you have
more ability to attune
to the states of others
as well as yourself?
How has this happened?
8. Has
your sense of time
shifted in your pain
experience? Is there
more expansion and
how does this affect
your everyday life?
Please
feel
free to
share any
of
your discoveries
from
this exercise
on
the RCP
blog. We’d
love
to hear
how this
approach
to self-integration
goes
for you. For
more information about
Daniel Siegel’s
model of integration,
visit psychotherapynetworker.org/magazine/currentissue/744-complexity-choiror
consult his book
Mindsight.
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Although
happiness can be a
slippery concept,
the research that has
emerged offers some
practical guidelines
for enhancing your
quota of satisfaction
and contentment |
Embrace
Positive Psychology
During
the last decade, the
numbers of books published
on the topic of happiness
have exploded from only
50 books released in
2000 to more than 4,000
volumes in 2008. The
most popular classes
at major universities
like Harvard and Stanford
feature positive psychology,
and more and more lay
people are enrolling
in workshops or sessions
with life coaches that
promise a focus on happiness.
Although
happiness can be a slippery
concept, the research
that has emerged offers
some practical guidelines
for enhancing your quota
of satisfaction and
contentment, and each
guideline also refers
back to one or more
building blocks of the
RCP program. Please
consider how you can
incorporate some of
the suggestions below
to further reverse the
effects of your pain
condition.
1. Make
personal relationships
a priority because
good relationships can
mitigate the damaging
effects of life’s
downturns and setbacks
(Love).
2. Include
gratitude practice as
part of your daily
routine. Journal
on gratitude, write
a letter to someone
expressing your
gratitude, and perform
acts of kindness
on a regular basis
(Observe, connect)
3. Avoid
predicting what will
make you happy which
is very difficult
because we base
our predictions on
our memories of positive
past experience,
that can often be
distorted by traumatic
events over the course
of time. Make sure
you are living
in alignment with
your current values. If
you’re
not sure what
they are, Julie
Harris, author
of The
Positive Power
of Negative Thinking suggests
that you answer
the following question: “Imagine
that you could
wave a magic wand
and be guaranteed
the approval of
everyone on the
planet, forever.
How would you live
your life? What
would be different
from how you are
living right now?
(Imagine, Connect)
4. Pursue
what you actually
value rather
than “the
pursuit of happiness” which
can prove to be
a trap, as you
may end up struggling
against reality,
which sometimes
includes emotional
and physical pain.
If you want to
live a rich, satisfying
and meaningful
life, allowing
the entire range
of feelings will
help you more than
striving to keep
your physical
and emotional feelings
positive (Feel).
5. Mindfulness, or
being present in each
current moment, with
openness and curiosity
instead of judgment
can defuse the impact
of negative feelings.
So give yourself permission
to feel the full range
of emotions and practice
mindfulness to help
regulate them (Feel,
Observe).
6. Embrace
your natural coping
style versus
trying to be a successful
person. If you are
a highly anxious
person, for example,
you can use your
anxiety as energy
to get things done
in alignment with
your goals so that
you also reduce the
anxiety at the same
time. It’s
also important to
cultivate other
reliable ways of
relaxing that are
not necessarily related
to your goals, including
exercise and other “feel
good” activities
to create better
balance in mood
(Energize, Relax)
7. Lead
from your best self. Leading
with your strengths
is linked to greater
feelings of happiness
as demonstrated
by one of Dr. Marty
Seligman’s
research projects
(go to authentichappiness.com).
Individuals who
wrote their strengths
down and reviewed
them once a day
for one week increased
their happiness
ratings significantly.
Completing this
practice for longer
than a week is believed
to increase good
feelings over a
longer period of
time because this
habit can connect
you with your ideal,conflict-free
self. To
try this experiment,
think about a
time in the past
at any point in
your life when
you believe you
were at your
best and identify
the strengths
that you exhibited
at that time.
Try reviewing
these strengths
every day for
a week. If it’s
helpful, practice
even longer (Imagine,
Connect). You
might also want
to check in with
Neil Fiore’s
work with “Your
Strongest Self” through
his book, Awaken
Your Strongest
Self, and
his websites neilfiore.com and yourstrongestself.com.
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Journal
Exercise

neuroscience has exploded on the mindbody health scene with important implications for the healing of pain

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Exploring
Positive Psychology:
Exercise 2 (Journaling)
Choose
two of the suggestions
above to practice for
one week. Be intentional
about why you are choosing
the two steps you select.
For best results, choose
one to begin with and
continue focusing until
you have created momentum.
Journal your results,
noting what seemed to
help you build momentum.
Then add the second of
the seven steps. Apply
any strategies for self-encouragement
or self-coaching that
helped create momentum
with the first step.
What happens with the
second strategy? Does
your momentum strategy
help? How or how not?
Make
sure you journal your
results with both steps
to applying positive
psychology as well as
the mometum strategy
that helped you reach
success.
Refer
back to this strategy
as you continue through
the rest of this module.
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Build
on the Ways Your Brain
Heals Itself
In
the last ten years, neuroscience
has exploded on the mindbody
health scene with important
implications for the
healing of pain. There
are many relevant suggestions
that follow from the
research that can support
you to use your mind
in an effective way to
help your brain.
Phantom
Limb Pain
One
intriguing application
includes the study of
phantom limb pain. The
medical profession has
long been intrigued by
pain appearing in limbs
or areas of the body
that are no longer intact,
usually occurring through
amputation.
Dr.
V.S. Ramachandran has
explored the possibility
that, when part of the
body is lost, the surviving
brain map sprouts new
connections because of
brain plasticity, and
cross-wiring occurs,
depending on their proximity
to brain maps of existing
body area.
In
order to reverse cross-wiring
errors, Dr. Ramachandran
invented a mirror box
that creates a mirror
image of the remaining
limb, which will appear
to be the missing limb.
Ramachandran has found
that, with practice,
this approach can even
unfreeze the most severe
phantom pain, which has
often “locked
in” excruciating
elements of the injury
that created the need
for amputation in the
first place.
One
of many health professionals
who has experimented
with Ramachandran’s
mirror box is Andrew
Austin in the UK. Andrew
found that many of the
phantom limb patients
who consulted him could
not make use of the box
because of a phenomenon
he calls “contracture.” This
refers to the fact that
the brain map of the
phantom limb might be
in hugely contracted
or constricted position
related to the injury
or accident that resulted
in the loss of the limb.
He has discovered that
helping patients to make
a “mirror
image” of
the missing limb, based
on the position and felt
sense of the “good
remaining limb” allows
the phantom to gradually
unwind, releasing much
of the pain, so that
the patient can make
use of the mirror box.
One
of the implications of
this approach with chronic
pain is to consider how
you might begin to use
your brain to make a
different image of the
areas of the body where
your pain is located.
You do not need a mirror
box to achieve these
effects (although it
might be intriguing to
explore that possibility).
Hypnosis, for example,
is a powerful tool that
can help people change
their perceptions of
pain, including longstanding
chronic pain, by influencing
the conscious mind through
creative imagery.
Through
self-hypnosis, which
you explored earlier
in module 4, it is possible
to build your inner strength,
strengthen coping, relieve
tension and stress, resolve
inner conflicts to take
the “struggle” out
of pain, shift negative
thought patterns related
to pain, use your creative
imagination to create
deeper comfort, and transform
the experience of pain
sensations.
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Journal
Exercise
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Self-Hypnosis
for Pain
Transformation:
Exercise
3 (Audio & Journal)
Raise
one hand with the
back of your hand
facing you. Concentrate
on one finger with
your eyes open (staring
at it) or closed
(imagining or remembering
it). Let the other
fingers fade away
from your awareness.
You might view your
hand and arm with
curiosity as if it
were a statue or
a work of art.
As
you continue to concentrate,
feel your raised
hand and arm becoming
heavier. Allow your
arm to lower SLOWLY.
As it does, you enter
into a comfortable
state of relaxation
that deepens as your
arm slowly lowers.
By the time your
hand comes all the
way down and settles
comfortably on your
lap, your eyes are
closed and you feel
comfortably relaxed.
Now focus on your
breathing. Feel your
breath moving in
and moving out very
easily and naturally.
To
relax more deeply,
with your eyes still
closed, imagine slowly
walking
down
a set of stairs. Perhaps
you feel the thick,
plush carpeting under
your feet or the smooth,
polished wood of the
hand railing.
With
each step, your
level of relaxation
deepens. At the
bottom of the stairs,
you find a door.
You open it and
enter a place where
you feel most happy,
content, safe, comfortable,
and pleased (for
some, a balmy beach,
for others, a cool
mountain meadow,
for others, a sidewalk
café,
a country inn,
or a corner of your
own home. Imagine
this pleasant place
in detail and stay
there and enjoy
it with all of your
senses for as long
as you want to
or need to.
Imagine
your shadow. It
moves with you and
is attached to your
body, yet it is not
inside of your body.
It is attached but
separate. It is outside
of you. Imagine
putting your pain
into your shadow.
Use whatever image
works for you. Perhaps
you can see the
discomfort flowing
out of your physical
body into your shadow.
Then
imagine yourself
floating away from
your shadow and any
discomfort. The
pain
is now in your shadow
and not in your body.
Now practice watching
the pain flow out
of the shadow that
is now separate from
your body.
When all the pain
has flowed out and
evaporated, imagine
merging back with
your shadow again.
You feel much more
comfortable now.
You can repeat this
exercise any time
you like.
When
you are ready to
emerge from this
hypnotic state
and
become fully conscious,
walk back up those
stairs, counting
up if you like.
You will feel more
and more awake
and alert with each
step. When you reach
the top, you’ll
feel alert, refreshed
and relaxed. The
feelings of comfort
you experienced
will last for some
time after you reorient
to the room around
you.
NOTE:
The more often you
repeat this self-hypnosis
exercise, the more
effective you will
become. It is best
to practice twice
a day for around
10-15 minutes each
time. Also practice
sending your discomfort
into your shadow
spontaneously when
you have not scheduled
a formal practice.
Take
a little time to
journal your results.
Can you modify
this exercise in
any way to
make it even more
effective?
This
exercise is based
on ones by Dr. Bruce
Eimer, hypnotic pain
specialist. For more
information, please
visit hypnosisgroup.com.
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“hado”,
which literally
translated, is
Japanese for “vibration” or “wave
motion” has
been involved
in the study of
quantum
physics,
world peace, and
global ecology |
Healing
Beyond Your Body
An
offshoot of positive
psychology is the
area of positive
intentions and affirmations.
A Japanese scientist
named Masaru Emoto
has conducted a
comprehensive study
of the use of positive
messages to purify
water. For many
years, he conducted
laboratory experiments
which involved photographing
water crystals that
had been altered
only by the application
of positive words
(such as “love
and gratitude”)
and negative messages
such as “hatred” and “oppression.”
Dr.
Emoto’s
books have been
translated into
45 languages and
he has launched
a worldwide peace
project based on
his work. His books
have presented the
concept of “hado”, which
literally translated,
is Japanese for “vibration” or “wave
motion” has been involved
in the study of
quantum physics,
world peace, and
global ecology.
For
more information,
please visit the
official website
of Dr. Emoto at masaru-emoto.net/english/e_ome_link.html.
Emoto’s
research focuses
on the power of
water to memorize
and carry information,
and the education
of human beings
to cultivate sustainable
energy from water
through heightened
feelings of love
and gratitude, the
use of healing messages
in his work may
have even broader
implications that
link to the act
of manifesting positive
intentions toward
yourself. The next
exercise will give
you an opportunity
to explore the healing
power of positive
messages.
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Video
Exercise 10-4
Journal
Exercise

There
is inspiration
that flows
naturally
through
every day.
You
don’t
really
need special
tools to
find
inspiration.
You
just need
to remember
to look.
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The
Power of Healing Messages:
Exercise 4 (Video & Journaling)
If
you have not yet explored
this approach to healing,
and are willing to
be open to any and
all results, please
watch this video and then take part in
your own healing messages experiment.
You may choose one
of the experiments
below or create your
own!
1.
Choose
a powerful word (or
words) that resonates
fully with you in terms
of a healing focus.
Write the word or words
down on a slip of paper
(or type it into your
computer and print
it
out), and then affix
it to a particular
part
of your body that is
unobtrusive to others.
Wear this label every
day for several days.
At the end of this
time,
write down any changes
you have noticed in
your pain condition,
mood, or overall health in your pain journal.
2.
Another
option is to explore
the power of healing
messages to facilitate
growth of living things.
Plant two identical
flowers or plants in
identical soil samples
in identical planters.
Place a label on one
pot that reads “love
and gratitude” while
leaving the other
pot blank. Make sure
to give the two plants
identical amounts
of food, water, sunlight
and attention. What
is the outcome of
this experiment? How
do the plants appear
to be affected by
the
healing message or
lack thereof? Do your
results add to your
understanding of ways
that healing messages
contribute to your
healing, to the healing
of other people and
life forms on the
planet? Note your observations
and reflections in your journal.
Find
Daily Inspiration
The
journey to a pain-free
life will continue on
long after you complete
your last exercise.
One of the ways you
can ensure that you
stay on the path, no
matter how challenging
or difficult, is to
aim toward a daily practice
of finding inspiration.
There
is inspiration that
flows naturally through
every day. You don’t
really need special
tools to find inspiration.
You just need to remember
to look.
Many
years ago, I first met
Brother David Steindl-Rast
(see module 5) at the
Esalen Institute in
Big Sur, California.
Brother David and I
sat on the lawn and
ate our lunch together.
I was focused on enjoying
delicious food and his
company, yet Brother
David found several
ways to expand what
we shared by calling
my attention to several
natural surprises—a
feather nestled in the
grass, a ladybug crawling
on his hand, the shape
of a cloud drifting
by. I was very impressed
by his way of looking
each day for at least
one experience, plant,
animal, food, person,
or object for which
he had never before
been grateful.
I
can think of no better
sendoff on your continuing
journey toward reversing
the effects of physical
and emotional pain than
to discover more ways
to find and focus on
inspiration each and
every day. |
click
here
for
Exercise
10-5
Journal
Exercise

Our
goal for this last
module is to help
you create the finishing
touches for now, even
though we hope your
RCP
pain protocol will
continue to be a “work
in progress.”
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Staying
Inspired: Exercise
5 (Audio & Journaling)
Practice
one or more of the
following methods to
increase your intake
of daily inspiration
and journal your results.
As with other positive
emotions, it is impossible
to feel inspired and
be in pain at the same
time!
1. Take
a 5 minute daily break
to “look” for
inspiration in the
natural world around
you. You
might want to step
outside at lunch
time, unplug from
your computer for
a few minutes and
look around, or even
use your computer
to look for inspiring
nature photos or
quotations for a few
minutes each day. OR
take a 30 second
break to look at
the grass, sky, trees,
and birds, and offer
thanks.
2. Treat
each day like a precious
gift to unwrap. What
if today was one
of the last days
of your life (which,
of course is true)?
How would you want
to spend it? Spend
a week focused on
these questions and
the answers you live.
3. Reach
out to others you
don’t
usually connect
with. It’s
amazing to discover
that someone you
touch can touch
you back. Explore
opportunities
on mass transit,
in your neighborhood,
in your spiritual
community, in
your
volunteer work.
Basically, form
the intention of
widening your field
of connection.
Tips
for Designing Your
Pain Protocol
Have
you ever read a book
or seen a movie where
the ending seemed as
if the author just “ran
out of steam?” Encountering
this phenomenon can
seem disappointing and
anticlimactic. We hope
to help you avoid this
outcome. Our goal for
this last module is
to help you create the
finishing touches for
now, even though we
hope your RCP pain protocol
will continue to be
a “work
in progress.”
We
are closing now
with some tips to help
you refine further the
elements of pain methods
you have found effective
throughout this course.
As always, please feel
free to modify or deviate
from any suggestions
in ways that bring you
the very best results.
1. A
little goes a long
way. One
rule for designing
anything complex
is to make sure that
you stay focused on
what is MOST important.
Spend a few minutes
now to consider what
your all-time most
effective pain strategy
might be. This may
be a technique that
you were using before
you began the RCP
program and have further
developed, or one
that you discovered
and have been mastering,
as you worked your
way through the previous
nine modules. As
a review, write down
techniques, methods,
or strategies that
you recall using
successfully related
to each building block
on the left. Be spontaneous
and don’t
cheat by looking
back at module materials
just yet.
Rank Technique
Breathe:
Feel:
Relax:
Imagine:
Observe:
Energize:
Move:
Connect:
Love:
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The
single most important
skill that will take
you to the next level
of healing is regular
practice. |
Next,
put a star next to
the #1 most effective
building block module
in your pain
recovery and specify
the technique that
has been most helpful
in refining
that skill. You may
also want to review
directly now
your RCP materials
to remind you of techniques
you found useful along
the way,
and maybe intended
to come back to. Add
those to the
list above if you’d
like.
2. This
is not a contest and
there is no finish
line. Are
you still comparing
your progress to
someone else’s
or to a standard
that someone other
than you set? Along
the way, a professional,
friend, family member,
or self-help book
may have suggested
how long your recovery
should take. How
seriously have you
taken this information?
How can you use what
you’ve
learned in this
program
to counter this
kind
of arbitrary deadline
that may be
impeding your progress?
What is a positive
image, metaphor
or blueprint of how
you want your recovery
to unfold from here?
3. Practice,
practice, and practice
some more. We’ve
emphasized the practice
effect throughout
the RCP online program.
The single most important
skill that will take
you to the next level
of healing is regular
practice. If you
are at or nearing
a plateau in your
progress, consider
how you can modify
the practice you
are already doing.
Your answer may be
to add something new
to your pain reversal
equation (consider
your list in step
one above) OR to practice
skills you are using
so that they are even
more effective (for
example, making sure
that you are fully
present and engaged
during practice and
not “multi
tasking” can
maximize the benefits
of any practice
session).
4. Requires
Assembly. The
word “assemble” means
to bring together
various parts into
a whole. If you’ve
made it this far
in the RCP program,
you have probably
been assembling
aspects
of our program
all
along. What you
might not have
considered
is the sequence
of the tools you
are using. In order
to complete this
step, think about
your experiences
during the last
week or so. What
tool did you notice
your mind drifting
toward when you’ve
thought about regulating
your pain? Did
you
override this intuitive
leap? If so, how?
Experiment in the
next week with
how you can more
freely
let your intuition
guide your pain
plan. What changes
do you notice in
your pain experience?
5. Build
on Success. In
order to build on
your success, you
must first affirm
how you’ve
already been successful.
As you review the
weeks that you’ve
been participating
in the RCP online
program, what has
been the high point
in your success? How
do you know? What
are some other key
experiences you recall
during this time?
How did you achieve
them? How can
you build on your
strengths to help
you become even more
successful? Please
take time to record
your responses to
these 5 tips in your
pain journal or in
the online blog.
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Thanks
so much for joining
us for this program.
We hope you have
found support, new
knowledge and skills,
and that you feel
enriched by your
experiences. |
Before
You Go On…
Of
course, there really
can be no formal ending
to this program since
you will be continuing
to add to your knowledge
and practice of skills
in many ways. Yet
it might be helpful
to take a few minutes
to write down some
steps of the pain
protocol that has
evolved during your
involvement with our
program before you
put away your RCP
materials and journal
for now.
Perhaps
the following questions
can serve as a guideline
to help you specify
your pain protocol
before you move on:
1.
What is the skill you
practice most consistently
on a regular basis
without really thinking
about it? (Consider
breathe, feel, relax,
imagine, observe, energize,
move, connect, love,
and build).
2.
What step or steps
have you added to
modify this skill
beyond what was provided
here in the RCP modules?
3.
What is the skill
you turn to when your
pain begins to worsen?
Why do you think
that skill is so effective
for you?
4.
What is the skill
or skills that you
add when you begin
to feel that your
pain is spiraling
out of control? What
consistent effects
do you obtain?
Thanks
so much for joining
us for this program.
We hope you have found
support, new knowledge
and skills, and that
you feel enriched
by your experiences.
Please
continue to visit
our site from time
to time to take advantage
of free audio downloads,
the online community
through the blog,
and other resources.
If you would like
to go further with
the Reversing Chronic
Pain model, please
consider participating
in our 10 week pain
coaching program to
help you keep your
skills strong. Signup
information is located
on the recp website
home page. You may
also want to take
advantage of teleseminars,
e-courses, and e-workshops.
For more specific
information about
our offerings, please
visit maggiephillipsphd.com and
also check our monthly
newsletter for more
possibilities. We
hope to “see” you
in the future! |
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Dr. Maggie Phillips discusses hypnosis, pain relief, and health (interviewed by Jon Benson for Fit Over 40). click here.
Dr. Phillips speaks on Reversing Chronic Pain with Energy Psychology (interviewed for Voice America by Carol Look) click here.
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"Between stimulus
and response there
is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response
lies our growth
and our freedom"
~ Victor Frankl

"Realize that this
very body,
with its aches
and its pleasures…
is exactly what
we need
to be
fully human,
fully awake,
fully alive."
~ Pema Chodron

"We have to face the pain we have been running from. In fact, we need to learn to rest in it and let its searing power transform us."
~ Charlotte Joko Beck

" Don’t turn away. Keep your gaze
on the bandaged place. That’s where the
light enters you."
~ Rumi
"Once a disease has entered the body,
all parts which are healthy must fight it: not one alone, but all. Because a disease might mean their common death.
Nature knows this;
and Nature attacks the disease with whatever help she can muster."
~
Paracelsus
"We are all broken
and wounded
in this world.
Some choose
to
grow strong at
the broken places"
~
Harold J. Durte-Bernhardt
"Now
and then
it's good to pause
in our pursuit
of happiness and
just be happy."
~
Apollinaire
"Most of the shadows of this life are
caused by standing in
one's own sunshine.”
~ Emerson
"A healthy attitude
is contagious
but don't wait to
catch it from others.
Be a carrier."
~
Anonymous
"In spite of illness,
in spite even of the arch-enemy sorrow, one can remain alive long past the usual date of disintegration
if one is unafraid of change, insatiable
in intellectual curiosity, interested in big things, and happy in
small ways."
~
Edith Wharton
"There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful
than the risk it took
to blossom."
~
Anais Nin
"Beautiful words
have beautiful,
clear vibrations.
But negative words
put out ugly, incoherent vibrations which do not
form clusters. Language is not something artificial, but rather is something that exists naturally.
I believe that language is created by nature."
~
Masaru Emoto
"Everybody
needs beauty as well
as bread, places to play
in and pray in,
where nature may heal and give
strength to body and soul.
~ John Muir
"In every man's heart there is a secret nerve that answers to the vibrations of beauty"
~
Christopher Morley
"All beginnings are somewhat strange;
but we must have patience, and
little by little,
we shall find things, which at first
were obscure, becoming clearer."
~
Vincent De Paul
"It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn
to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present.
And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad."
~ C.S.
Lewis
"When you are through changing,
you are through."
~ Bruce
Barton
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